Love Or Owning

This situation mostly arises when you are talking about love marriage. You are saying that you love someone but till never be able to have that person. Now 'have' that person, I don't know how you interprete it as, but I think it is like spending our life together known in short as 'marriage.' From the second sentence of your discussion that you are asking in bewilderment that why one cannot own that girl or a boy one loves. It seems that you are too immature and that you don't have enough experience in life. You have not seen the world enough or the thing might be that you have not had a broken relationship. Those who have gone through, like me, will never repeat these things in life. Life is hard, you know and not all the things go according to our plans everytime. There are bound to be things that come our way with which we are not too pleased or that we have to accept unwillingly. If you talk about arranged marriage, you can love as well as own. Here you are killing two birds in one stone. That is one thing you cannot complain about.