Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Is it wrong to tell your boyfriend or husband about your weaknesses?

Is it wrong to tell your boyfriend or husband about your weaknesses?
I would not say that it would be completely wrong, but in fact it depends on what weakness you are exposing. If you are exposing too much of your personal life, I think that it would not be a good idea. After all even if you are married, still you have your own space and this space should be respected by each and every individual. If you are a husband does not mean that you should have a peek at each and every thing that your wife does. Secondly, if you think you might get humiliated at times, even then it would be a right choice to keep the things up to you.

What wrong would it be to do so? There are some things which I have not exposed to my wife even after a considerable period of our marriage and I think I am doing no wrong. One more thing, the term that you say weakness is a subjective one. What you may call a 'weakness' and have kept it unto yourself, I for one, might feel that a trivial thing. So, it is up to each one to decide what things are our weaknesses and what the strong points are. Fourthly, it also depends on how your partner is. If he or she is a considerate fellow, there is no harm in telling about what your weaknesses are. If the fellow on the other side is mature enough to understand the importance, there is no harm in exposing. May be he can give you a solution, who knows.


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