Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Cameron Diaz defines marriage as insignificant






Exactly opposite the Indian culture, actress Cameron Diaz thinks that the marriage institution is not at all important in her eyes. If on one hand there is the entire world thinking and believing in marriages, Cameron is one woman who ignores the very idea of marriage for her own self.
But after all, what is it that makes Cameron think ill of a spiritual institution like marriage? The answer to this question is ‘restrictions’. Another reason for her to say ‘no’ to marriage is missing out on the possibilities in life. Cameron Diaz thinks she will have to sacrifice things if she ties the knot with someone in life.
The actress, who is 38 years old, recently split form Alex 'A-Rod' Rodriguez, her boyfriend, who is also a star baseball player. However, Cameron is bold enough to get candid and say that we are invariably with that person with whom we are supposed to be when we are destined to be there (with that person).

Monday, April 11, 2011

The Do's And Don't Of A Relationship

There is no such a fixed formula for having a successful relationship. Had it been such, then we would never have heard the words like, 'breakup', 'ex-boyfriend', 'ex-girlfriend' or 'divorce', don't we? I do not believe in things such that if there are certain things to do knowingly or unknowingly. The reason is pretty simple. All humans are different and each one has the right to be unique.
If I give you something called a 'formula', then it would only be through my eyes, it would only be through my experiences. Even you and me are different and so are different our styles of looking at children and handling them. So, it would be pretty difficult to say what exactly to do and what not to do. Still as you say there are some factors which are important for all the couples - dating couples of course, irrespective of where they live or from what background they come from.
For example, the trust unto each other. Trust is the most important binding factor that can keep a guy and a girl together for the whole of their lives. Secondly, as only trust would not help, so also there should be love for each other too. Understanding shown towards each other can do wonders. Caring is also a key factor. How much you care for your partner you have to show that through words and actions. If these small factors are taken into consideration, they I think, you have found the formula for a successful relationship. What I tried to tell you are all the positives. If you think they are worth it, then just spread the word.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

The Do's and Don'ts of a Relationship


A happy-ending is what we all crave for. However, happy-endings do not come easy. You have to go through all the hardships before you see the light of the day. Going through rough patches or ‘bad patch’ as it is often called, bares fruits. There is no such a fixed formula for having a successful relationship. Had it been such, we would never have heard the words like, 'breakup', 'ex-boyfriend', 'ex-girlfriend' or 'divorce', don't we? I do not believe in things such as, doing things knowingly or unknowingly.

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Love Or Owning

This situation mostly arises when you are talking about love marriage. You are saying that you love someone but till never be able to have that person. Now 'have' that person, I don't know how you interprete it as, but I think it is like spending our life together known in short as 'marriage.' From the second sentence of your discussion that you are asking in bewilderment that why one cannot own that girl or a boy one loves. It seems that you are too immature and that you don't have enough experience in life. You have not seen the world enough or the thing might be that you have not had a broken relationship. Those who have gone through, like me, will never repeat these things in life. Life is hard, you know and not all the things go according to our plans everytime. There are bound to be things that come our way with which we are not too pleased or that we have to accept unwillingly. If you talk about arranged marriage, you can love as well as own. Here you are killing two birds in one stone. That is one thing you cannot complain about.