The Do's and Don'ts of a Relationship

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A happy-ending is what we all crave for. However, happy-endings do not come easy. You have to go through all the hardships before you see the light of the day. Going through rough patches or ‘bad patch’ as it is often called, bares fruits. There is no such a fixed formula for having a successful relationship. Had it been such, we would never have heard the words like, 'breakup', 'ex-boyfriend', 'ex-girlfriend' or 'divorce', don't we? I do not believe in things such as, doing things knowingly or unknowingly.

Is it wrong to tell your boyfriend or husband about your weaknesses?

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Is it wrong to tell your boyfriend or husband about your weaknesses?

I would not say that it would be completely wrong, but in fact it depends on what weakness you are exposing. If you are exposing too much of your personal life, I think that it would not be a good idea. After all even if you are married, still you have your own space and this space should be respected by each and every individual. If you are a husband does not mean that you should have a peek at each and every thing that your wife does. Secondly, if you think you might get humiliated at times, even then it would be a right choice to keep the things up to you.

Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?

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There are many facets to love. Some term love as God while some term love as illusion. This means that God is an illusion. Now what is this link? I remember to have read that love is an illusion many a time and also remember to have read that love is god. But that is really confusing. But I am a firm beliver that there can be no love at first sight. I really doubt who coined this phrase - 'love at first site'. When you see a person of the opposite sex what you see is only the physic. You cannot see the mind of the person. And for love to happen, the minds need to get involved. There cannot be only a physical intimacy which you can term it as love. That would be lust. And if god is love then where is the place for lust?
Secondly, as long as you don't know the mind of a person how can you love him/her. It is important that you know the person, try to understand him or her and then only proceed. Moreover, to get into love and to remain there takes time. You need to win the confidence of the person and all these activities need time. This cannot happen overnight. And in most cases, this happens in just a moment.
My god! I, personally find this really surprising. Such love is bound to break sooner - though, I hope this comes false. But I have seen some couples who have fallen in love at first sight - in a moment's time and have broken up faster still. Then what you get is only frustration and depression. Is this the love that anyone seeks?

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